I met Julie in 1996 at the Getty. We both were new working there, recent college grads and we became friends (along with my sister, Hillary, and many, many others who worked alongside us). She was always someone I admired - a great friend, very intelligent and creative, nice to everyone - everyone loved Julie! I met Tony separately and when Tony & Julie got together I thought, "Of course, that makes sense! They are both such amazing people; they will make a great couple." And they did.
When my sister, Hillary, died very suddenly 6 years ago, Julie (and Tony) was a rock for my family. Just a few days after my sister passed away, Julie & Tony hosted a gathering/memorial at their home for Hillary's family and close friends. It was so generous of both of them and it really helped all of us start the grieving process and come to terms with what had happened. I will never forget her generosity.